Forms of Address
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Generally
Gentlefolk are generally addressed by the title of their highest rank. Titles should not be "stacked" -- that is, you shouldn't use multiple titles when referring to a single person.
GOOD: "There goes Sir Joe, Baron of BigCity." BAD: "There goes Baron Sir Joe."
When a person is entitled to use more than one title, allow the circumstances to dictate which one gets used. If Sir Joe is also a member of the Order of the Laurel ("Master"), Baron of BigCity, and has been King once ("Count"), he could legitimately be called any one of the following:
- Sir Joe (on the fighting field)
- Master Joe (while teaching)
- Count Joe (when being announced into Court)
- Baron Joe (when in his barony, or while holding baronial court)
- Sir Joe, Master of the Order of the Laurel, Baron of BigCity, Count of An Tir
- Count Joe, Knight of the Order of Chivalry
- etc
No awards
Any gentle of any rank in the Society may be properly addressed as "my lord/milord" or "my lady/milady". This is especially useful if you don't know their rank. No gentle who bears awards or honours of any type should ever chastise another for using this form of address; better by far to explain the correct form of address, either for themself or a third party.
Examples:
- "Good day, milord."
- "My lady, you've dropped your handkerchief."
- "Milady Mary, come quick!"
- "My lord Joe is waterbearing."
Can sometimes be combined with someone's office or position:
- "Milord Cook, your feast was marvellous!"
- "Milady Herald, the King calls for you."
Award of Arms
Entitles the recipient to style him or herself "Lord" (note capital) or "Lady." They are properly addressed as "Lord (name)" or "Lady (name)." See also: Award of Arms
Examples:
- "Lord Joe made his own armor."
- "Would you ask Lady Mary if she has a large wooden spoon we can borrow?"
Grant of Arms
Title: The holders of Grants of Arms may style themselves "Lord" or "Lady", or in some areas, "The Honourable Lord" or "The Honourable Lady." They may be addressed as "Your Lordship" or "Your Ladyship." When referring to a person who has a Grant of Arms, you should use "Lord/the Honourable Lord" or "Lady/the Honourable Lady" instead of "His/Her Lord/Ladyship." See also: Grant of Arms
Examples:
- "The Honourable Lord Joe is our new shire Chirurgeon."
- "Here comes (optional: the Honourable) Lady Mary with a chest full of books. (to Mary) May I assist Your Ladyship?"
- "Would Your Ladyship care to dance?"
Patent of Arms
The holders of Patents of Arms are considered Peers. They may be subdivided into two categories: Royal Peers, which are those gentles who have held royal rank at least once, and Peers of the Society, who are members of one of the three Great Orders.
The titles involved can be many and varied. When in doubt, don't forget that "My lord" and "My lady" are perfectly acceptable titles for anyone.
Royal Peers
Royal Peers are those who:
- Have reigned at least once as Prince or Princess of a Principality. Their title is Viscount/Viscountess, and they are addressed as "Your Excellency".
- Example: "Your Excellency, this is Lord Ken. Lord Ken, this is Viscountess Mary."
- Example: "Get in armour, quick! Viscount Joe is holding the field against all comers!"
- Have reigned once as King or Queen of a Kingdom. They are called Count/Countess and are addressed as "Your Excellency".
- Example: "Your Excellency, the meeting is starting. (to page) Tom, would you carry Countess Mary's chair to the meeting please?"
- Example: "Count Joe is teaching needlepoint this afternoon. (to Count Joe) Your Excellency, would there room for one more in your class?"
- Have reigned twice or more as King or Queen of a Kingdom. They are called Duke/Duchess and are addressed as "Your Grace".
- Example: "One lump or two, Your Grace? (to server) Please take this tea to Duke Joe."
- Example: "According to the roster, it's Duchess Mary's turn to do the dishes. (to Duchess Mary) Your Grace, the water is almost hot."
There are also ethnic variations for these titles: List of Alternate Titles for SCA Use
Peers of the Society
Peers of the Society are members of:
- The Order of Chivalry;
- Members of the Order of Chivalry come in two flavours: Knights and Masters. Knights are addressed as "Sir (name)", Masters as "Master (name)".
- The members of the Order of the Laurel have the title of "Master" or "Mistress" and are addressed as "Your Excellency".
- The members of the Order of the Pelican have the title of "Master" or "Mistress" and are addressed as "Your Excellency".
"Dame" is a common alternative to "Mistress".
There are also ethnic variations for these titles: List of Alternate Titles for SCA Use